Birthdays are for gratitude

A Milestone Birthday: Reflections and Gratitude from the Hospital Bed

As I mark a major birthday here in the hospital, I find myself reflecting deeply on its significance, especially in light of my recent life-threatening surgeries. Surrounded by medical equipment and the dedicated professionals who have become an extended part of my care team, my thoughts are drawn to my family and the immense support they’ve provided.

Before my surgeries, we had a family reunion, a gathering that now holds even greater value. The loving presence of my devoted spouse, our wonderful children, and our extended family made that event special. Their unwavering support has been my anchor through these challenging times, making every celebration, even this one in a hospital bed, feel extraordinary.

This milestone also brings to mind the countless individuals who have been part of my journey. From every adventure, failure, success, and opportunity, there have been people who cared for me like family, profoundly influencing various parts of my life. Today, as I write this on the first day of my 70th year, unable to sleep and waiting for the pain medication to kick in, I think of those family members, fellow caregivers, and the countless healthcare workers who support them, much like my family supports me.

I am deeply grateful for these individuals who come to work every day, sharing their expertise and compassion, finding solutions to the challenges I currently face. Their dedication and care remind me of the value of community and the profound impact of kindness.

These experiences have enriched my life beyond words, and I look forward to many more birthdays, filled with reflections on the times we’ve shared and the people who have made a difference. It’s a happy birthday in so many ways, thanks to people like you—those who know me well and those who just met me yesterday but are doing good things for me today.

To my family, friends, and the healthcare heroes who have stood by me, I offer my deepest gratitude. Here’s to the next chapter, with its own set of adventures and moments of joy. Thank you for making this birthday, despite the circumstances, a celebration of life and love.